I was also ashamed to feel that way. It was normal and understandable that I would be scared and abashed. Nobody gave me any guidance (that I can recall) about how to behave around them or how to think about them. All I knew was that my mother felt strongly that they should feel welcome in our house, and I didn’t feel that way, and I felt bad about it. 
I was 6 years old.
And I was not the vice president of the United States. 
Here is what the man who is our vice president said the other day on a podcast, describing what happens when immigrants are allowed to live in our country, in the same neighborhood as people who were born here:  
[W]hat happens is 20 people move into a three-bedroom house. Twenty people from a totally different culture, totally different ways of interacting. Again, we can respect their dignity while also being angry at the Biden administration for letting that happen, and recognizing that their neighbors are gonna say, “Well, wait a minute, what is going on here? I don’t know these people. They don’t speak the same language that I do. And because there are 20 in the house next door, it’s a little bit rowdier than it was when it was just a family of four or a family of five.”
Then he said: “It is totally reasonable and acceptable for American citizens to look at their next-door neighbors and say, ‘I wanna live next to people who I have something in common with, I don’t wanna live next to four families of strangers.’”
When I was 6, I wished those different people next door lived somewhere else, instead of next door to me. But I was ashamed of feeling that way. I knew it was wrong.
Mr. Vance is not only an adult; he is a Catholic. And yet he has somehow emerged from RCIA, presumably having read at least parts of the Old and the New Testament, believing that we, the people of God, are entitled to unchallenged homogeneity, and that it’s reasonable to reject people who make us uncomfortable because of their differences. 
It may be common or even understandable to feel this way, but it’s shameful to act on it. It’s shameful not to try to get past it and to be better. It is cowardly, it is selfish, it is un-American, it is un-Christian to reject people just because they are different—which is all that Mr. Vance noted. He did his usual sleight-of-hand, furthering the idea that refugees who presented themselves at the border committed a crime (which it’s not), and calling President Biden’s immigration policy “open borders” (which it wasn’t). But in this particular clip, he didn’t even claim this hypothetical family next door broke laws or threatened anyone or behaved immorally or were dirty or lazy or unkind. Just that they are different, and there are a lot of them. And that is enough to reject them. 
This is such a flagrant insult to our faith that I don’t even know how to explain it. ….. Read the rest of my latest for America Magazine. 
Image: Photo by Gage Skidmore from Surprise, AZ, United States of America, CC BY-SA 2.0, via Wikimedia Commons
 
Here’s the link to the rest of the article:
https://www.americamagazine.org/faithinfocus/2025/11/03/jd-vance-immigrant-neighbor/
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